February 26, 2025

How fucked up is your life? Before you answer this question, I want you to read through this whole blog post. I’m writing this for all the young men who are lost out there. For all the young men who don’t know what to do with their lives. Most young men don’t even know the answer to that question because our society has made some historically degenerate things acceptable. I don’t know how often I’ll be making these posts yet, but you can check this website or my Twitter (X) to see if a new one has been posted.  

Being a man in today’s world means drinking beer and watching football and if you don’t do either then you’re a faggot. I know this all too well because I used to do the same. Watch football, drink beer, and call people who didn’t faggots. I look back at the person I was and my friends who promote all the horrid shit that’s accepted in today’s world, and I’m left pretty sad. I, like a lot of you reading, am a college student that is looking for his way in today’s world. I was in a fraternity and did all the fucked-up things that go on in the fraternities. I drank, did drugs, and gambled like a degenerate. What did the people around me have to say about it? Good. That is normal. “You’re just a college kid. Get it out of your system.” What they don’t tell you is that now you’ve developed habits that will likely stick with you for the rest of your life. This is not an attack on Greek life by the way. There are many good kids in Greek life and many lessons that come of it. Through pledging you’re taught some important values such as brotherhood, accountability, and teamwork. However, in most cases, it also teaches you how to get as fucked up as possible and wang as many chicks as you can. Like many of you, I always knew that there was something wrong with this picture. There’s something in your gut that tells you something is wrong, and you could be doing more. Sometimes it’s pretty damn obvious as you just took a chop at 9 am and are getting ready for a long day of sitting on the couch and staring at the TV.  

This is for the young men who want to change but don’t know how. Or maybe you do. Maybe you have all the answers inside of you and you just don’t know how to get them out. My goal is to show you, and make you realize that it’s not as hard as you think. All you have to do is let go. Let go of all the bullshit holding you down. What your friends will think of you or the “fun” you’ll be missing out on. As someone who’s done it, and who’s been on both sides now, I know it really isn’t that fun. What’s fun is to start loving the person that you’re becoming because you’re going to the gym, learning every day, and making money. Once you begin to grow the four principles of man: mind, body, spirit, emotions (from Hard Times Create Strong Men by Stefan Aarnio) then will you know what fun is. When you start to get in a rhythm, and you look in the mirror and start to love and respect the person you see, then you will know fun. It is then when you will have women chasing after you, not the other way around. And not these bat-shit crazy sorority girls who will accuse you of rape after they’ve been grabbing your cock all night. You will have access to high quality women who will bring you up and not tear you down with crazy ass arguments. These types of women only bring problems, and they will bring you right down to your level if you let them.  

Through this blog I will detail parts of my journey, which I’ve only just begun, to try and give young men the values every man truly wishes to live their life by. It is through these values of discipline, patience, kindness, honesty, and strength that we really start to understand ourselves because this is the way we were designed to be at our peak. The way of men is an extremely unique one and is something only we get to experience. Don’t fuck it up. It can be the most beautiful thing in the universe, or the saddest, ugliest thing you’ve ever seen. Through this blog, I will teach you to be a good man, as I, myself, am learning to become.

-White T Poison 

“It is not death that a man should fear but he should fear never beginning to live.”
-Marcus Aurelius, Meditations